When Tom Sturges became a father, he wanted to be the best father possible, so he wrote Parking Lot Rules: and 75 Other Ideas For Raising Amazing Children. The focus of this book is not so much scientifically based, but it is more a guide that gives advice on the proper ways to raise a child. It ranges from teaching a child how to always be careful when in a parking lot to learning the proper times to say "please" and "thank you," to teaching the child the power of forgiveness. Sturges is no doctor by any means; he is just an ordinary father like all other fathers, but he wanted to make sure that all potential dads had something that gave them proper inside advice on how to raise their child. Sturges do not use specific research to back up his points; however, he does do research on topics such as chapter 21 where Sturges teaches the reader several signs in sign language. Sturges does this because instead of telling his son "I love you" in front of a group of his son's friends, he instead does a simple sign with his hand that means, "I love you." Sturges emphasizes that these signs are just as powerful as words when he says, "They [the hand signs] are easy to use and very efficient. They can be clearly seen across a soccer field or at a middle school graduation or over dinner at home" (49). Sturges does not have a Ph. D. or another title to back up his work, but he does refer to Dr. Eli Lieber for information such as researching the proper signs in sign language.